Online dating can be a great way to meet new people you might not interact with in your daily life. Our busy modern lives often lend themselves to more time effective ways of seeking a romantic partner, and online dating has become more and more popular as a result.
However, it is important to exercise caution when sharing information about yourself to those you’ve never actually met. Be aware that scammers often target dating site users as a way of interacting with strangers so that they can perform any one of numerous online dating scams. What follows are a few simple tips to lower your risk of becoming a victim.
Do not give out personal information: If someone asks for your address to send you a gift, tell them you can accept it if (and when) you meet in person. Information such as your address, phone number, Social Security number or place of employment can be used to steal your identity.
Be wary of people who seem to move too quickly: If someone you just started communicating with last week asks for your hand in marriage, it could be a red flag that this person has less than honorable intentions. You should spend quite a bit of time getting to know someone before you travel to see them or give them any personal information.
Don’t send money to anyone you meet online: You have been talking to John in Baltimore for months now and you agree it is time to meet in person. He says he will pay half of the ticket and you just need to mail him a check for the other half. Sounds fair, except now he has your checking account number, your routing number and whatever other personal information you have divulged to him in your courting period which he may be able to use to drain your bank account.
If they seem too good to be true, they probably are: This is true with any scam and is just a good rule to live by. If a person contacts you and has the exact same interests, is physically perfect in your eyes, agrees with everything you say and instantly falls madly in love with you, you may be the luckiest person on earth… or you might be getting ready to be taken advantage of.
Be careful when logging into dating sites in public places: Dating networks are much like other social networks. The same havoc that can be wreaked on your life should someone be able to log into your Facebook account can also take place if someone is able to access your online dating account. So take precautions to log out, and close browsers when logging off your accounts when on a computer that is used by more than one person.
With more than 40 million Americans using an online dating service, and more signing up each day, what was once a stigmatized practice is now the norm. You can find the love of your life on the Internet, but you can also find quite a few frogs and some of those frogs may be after more than your heart. Using common sense and the above tips will help you protect your personal information while you search for your other half.